Ask any new parent and they will tell you the same thing: babies are expensive. From the moment you find out you are expecting, the costs start rolling in – nappies, formula, clothes they outgrow in weeks, and nursery gear that can cost as much as a second-hand car. Research suggests raising a child in the UK now costs well over £150,000 before their 18th birthday, and a significant slice of that is spent in the first few years.
The good news is that with a bit of planning and some smart shopping habits, you can shave hundreds – sometimes thousands – of pounds off your baby and toddler budget. Here is how.
Save a Fortune on Nappies and Wipes
Nappies are one of the biggest recurring costs of the first three years. A baby will get through somewhere between 4,000 and 6,000 nappies before potty training, which adds up to £600 or more if you stick to premium brands.
To cut the cost:
- Switch to supermarket own brands – Aldi Mamia and Lidl Toujours consistently rival big brands in blind tests at a fraction of the price
- Buy in bulk – larger packs work out much cheaper per nappy, and subscribing can knock a further 5-10% off – check the latest Amazon offers before you stock up
- Size up strategically – the weight guidance on packs is only a guide, and a bigger size often works out cheaper per nappy
- Use loyalty schemes – Boots Advantage Card, Tesco Clubcard and Sainsbury’s Nectar all give you points on baby purchases
Wipes follow the same rule: supermarket own-brand multipacks are far cheaper than branded tubs, and the product inside is essentially identical whatever the packaging claims.
Cut the Cost of Formula Feeding
If you are formula feeding, you can easily spend £10-£15 a week on formula alone, and prices have risen sharply in recent years. Two things every parent should know:
First, all first infant formula sold in the UK must meet the same strict nutritional standards by law. The £8 own-brand tin is nutritionally almost identical to the £16 premium version, so the extra money buys you packaging and marketing, nothing more.
Second, powder formula is far cheaper than ready-made bottles, which cost roughly double per millilitre. Save ready-to-feed for trips and emergencies only, and never dilute formula to make it stretch – always follow the instructions on the tin so your baby gets the full balance of nutrients.
Secondhand Nursery Gear – What is Safe and What is Not
Nursery equipment is where parents spend the most, and where secondhand shopping saves the most. A top-of-the-range travel system can cost £1,000 new, yet many families sell barely-used pushchairs for a fraction of that on Facebook Marketplace, eBay and Vinted.
Safe to buy secondhand:
- Pushchairs and prams – check the brakes, harness and wheels before buying
- Cots – always buy the mattress new, for both safety and hygiene
- High chairs, changing mats, baby baths and sterilisers – a deep clean makes them as good as new
- Toys and books – car boot sales and charity shops are full of them for pennies
Never buy secondhand:
- Car seats – crash damage is invisible and older seats may not meet current safety standards
- Cot mattresses – secondhand mattresses are linked to a higher risk of cot death
- Bike helmets and bike seats – same reason as car seats
NCT nearly new sales, baby and toddler markets and local parenting groups are goldmines for barely-used gear. Most items are used for just a few months before babies outgrow them, so someone else’s barely-touched bargain could be yours for a tenth of the price.
Buy Baby Clothes in Bundles
Babies grow out of clothes long before they wear them out, which makes children’s clothing the perfect secondhand category.
- Buy bundles, not single items – the cost per item drops dramatically on Vinted, eBay and local marketplace groups
- Shop one or two sizes ahead – buy in the sales for next season
- Ignore the size labels – brands vary wildly, so go by measurements instead
- Sell on what you no longer need – keep the circle going and recoup some cash
- Skip the fancy outfits – babies need comfort, not a wardrobe
For new essentials like sleepsuits, vests and baby toiletries, keep an eye on Boots baby offers, where regular promotions appear throughout the year, and Superdrug deals for everyday essentials at lower prices.
Claim Your Free Childcare Hours
Childcare is the single biggest cost for most families with young children, yet thousands miss out on government-funded hours. In England, as of 2026:
- 30 hours a week of free childcare is available for children from 9 months old up to school age for eligible working parents – around 1,140 hours a year, which you can usually spread across the holidays
- 15 free hours are available for all 3 and 4 year olds, regardless of parental working status
- 15 hours for 2 year olds is available if you receive certain benefits
Couple this with Tax-Free Childcare, where the government tops up every £8 you pay into an online account with £2, worth up to £2,000 per child per year (£4,000 for disabled children). You cannot claim Tax-Free Childcare at the same time as Universal Credit childcare support or older voucher schemes, so run your numbers through a benefits calculator first to see which pays more.
Benefits and Grants New Parents Often Miss
- Sure Start Maternity Grant – a one-off £500 payment for your first baby, or for multiples, and it never needs to be repaid
- Healthy Start scheme – a prepaid card for fruit, vegetables, milk and infant formula if you are on a low income, worth up to £8.50 a week while your baby is under one
- Child Benefit – worth over £1,300 a year for your first child, paid monthly
- Universal Credit child element – if you already claim UC, make sure your claim is updated after the birth so you receive the child element
Use a free benefits calculator – such as the ones on Entitledto or Turn2us – to check what you are entitled to after the birth. Your entitlements change the moment a child arrives, and many families lose out simply by not claiming.
Free and Cheap Activities for Toddlers
Keeping a toddler entertained does not have to mean soft play at £8 a session. Some of the best activities cost nothing at all:
- Library rhyme times – free, weekly and perfect for socialising
- Children’s centre and church baby groups – often free or £1 a session
- Parks and nature trails – fresh air costs nothing
- Toy libraries – borrow rather than buy
- Museums – most UK museums are free to enter for the whole family
When it comes to weaning and family food shopping, bulk-buying purée staples and frozen fruit and veg keeps costs low – see the latest Iceland deals for cheap freezer fillers that make batch-cooking baby food simple.
Final Tips for New Parents
- Ignore the essentials lists – retailers profit from first-time parent anxiety, and you genuinely need far less than the nursery industry suggests
- Ask for practical gifts – a contribution towards nappies is worth more than another teddy bear
- Accept hand-me-downs gracefully – it is not a compromise, it is common sense
- Spend on safety where it counts – new car seats and mattresses are the one place you should never cut corners
- Keep receipts – babies grow unpredictably, and unwanted gifts can often be exchanged
Raising a baby or toddler in the UK is never going to be cheap, but between free childcare hours, benefits you might not know about, secondhand shopping and smart bulk buying, you can realistically cut your early-years costs by £1,000 or more every year. For more money-saving offers, browse the Freebies dealstore for the latest deals and discounts.
